We’ve hit a milestone, dear reader.
Now I should warn you, that in my extended family we have a habit for good or ill of quoting from movies we’ve seen together at random times. Sometimes these are carefully staged, such as the letter I still have somewhere from my sister (then 15) during my freshman year at college, wherein the entire letter is movie quotes modified for the situation. We do this at the darndest times too, usually if a situation looks too sentimental, as a way of coping, or to “trivialize the momentous and complicate the obvious.” It has gotten us into mischief sometimes, and I crave pardon because I’m going to subject you to a small example of this tonight.
Tomorrow, someone has a big birthday.
And just going through the pictures is enough to make me want to cry. 🙂
Tomorrow, we’re the parents of a TEENAGER.
No way, right?
“Now I see in your eyes, the same fear, that would take the heart of me! A day may come, when [we really regret that the teen years are here], but it is not this day.
“This day, we [celebrate!]”
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MR. MAN!
I’m not scared of the teen years. We all survived our own, and so did our parents. It’s going to have its ups and downs, and maybe more downs than ups, but what good would it do to fret about it? It’s not going to stop the clock! 😉 So no, I’m not afraid.
((Cue Yoda: “You will be. You will be.” 😉 ))
Yes, I know, I’m incurably optimistic and naive. I’m facing uncharted waters full of breakers and other things-not-so-good. But you know what? We’ve been facing uncharted waters all the time since that evening of December 5, 2003, when a sort of normal pregnancy went suddenly very not-normal and things happened so fast we didn’t know what our lives would look like the next day. We were getting the no good really awful terrible news. Life was not turning out how we thought. But he came. He began by beating all the odds, and he’s still at it. Life may not have followed our original plan, but a much better one. Trooper needed us, and we needed him. We are all the better for him. And God has a way of getting folks through uncharted waters, so it’s all good. It’s all grace.
Happy 13th Birthday, our Trooper. We love you so much, you crazy, funny, sarcastic teenager. You still light our world with your smile and our days with your laughter. It is an honor and privilege to be your parents. You mean the world to us, big guy. We bless and thank God for the first 13 years of your life, and we look forward to sharing the teen years with you.